Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
C’mon nowwww… 
Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
Yes in a very modest way.
The thread opener is clever enough to use internet but so naive to do some research before asking the question. Look what I found just by typing "condoms in Pakistan" in google search.
Male members of Pakistan’s National Assembly and Senate received a unique gift from the Ministry of Population Welfare ahead of Eid-ul-Fitr - a packet of 100 condoms. The move, however, earned the ire of some opposition parliamentarians, who have taken it as an insult and plan to take it up with National Assembly Speaker Chaudhry Amir Hussian. The distribution of the condoms was part of a “bid to encourage population control at the top level”, according to news reports. “Yes, the condom packs have been distributed among the male parliamentarians. Each MP has been gifted a pack of condoms containing 100 condoms,” an unnamed official of the ministry of population welfare was quoted as saying. A lawmaker, who did not want to be named, said he would take up the matter with the Speaker and file a privilege motion if need be. Source: Press Trust of India reported in Push Journal
Yes.. this was shared in Politics forum :D
Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
Because you're religious, decent and unmarried.
tau?
i still dont understand whats wrong with posting here.
Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
tau?
i still dont understand whats wrong with posting here.
I was just surprised because usually people like brother Anwaar avoid answering in threads full of swearing or ludeness until there's a need to answer the question.
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yeah u can find condoms frm pakistan, dont use local like saathi, touch etc, i would recommend to use imported like rough rider and durex , in case of their any damage these are medicated that means these r also spermicide. these are also available in pkistan.
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I was just surprised because usually people like brother Anwaar avoid answering in threads full of swearing or ludeness until there's a need to answer the question.
and did I respond to any swearing or ludeness here:)? I did not even bother to look at what people had posted and only responded to the original query.... and I tried to answer in a light manner ... I did not know I was not allowed that too..
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hmmm, so what does it tell about you posting here? 
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and did I respond to any swearing or ludeness here:)? I did not even bother to look at what people had posted and only responded to the original query.... and I tried to answer in a light manner ... I did not know I was not allowed that too..
No. I'm not saying that you're not allowed to do that......but it was unusual as you said yourself " I can't believe I'm posting in this thread ".
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Peace All
Hareem01 heraan na ho na ... gusse mein bhi na aana!
This is important ... The men in Pakistan generally have no idea that it takes a bit of time to interest a woman.
First there is the fear and strangeness of being in the presence of a man that needs to be overcome this will only be overcome in the woman if he gives her space.
This can take either days or weeks depending.
Secondly both people need to know what the plans are for having a family.
The sister who asked the question. Please don't forget Allah (SWT) in all of your marriage activities.
Make you new husband do all of the Sunnah before touching you.
It is mustahab to do two nufl prayer when you are alone and for him to touch your head and make du'a that Allah (SWT) make your love increase for him and his love increase for you.
When you are both ready to take it further one of you needs to read the du'a :
Bismillah Allahuma Janibna nashShaitan wa JanibiShaitaana ma razaktaana
You can also do du'a to Allah (SWT) to give you what is best from you relationship if that be conception then to give you maturity and strength to cope with it if that is not to make you pregnant then to ask for happiness and patience without it.
The best thing to do is to get your hubby to be to speak with a male you can advise him about the psyche of the Western Muslim female and what is required.
Men should understand that they need to play with their wives to make them ready for going further. This is clear from hadith that Prophet Muhammad (SAW) encouraged foreplay (that does not involve the forbidden acts).
Hope all goes fine ... Somehow he will need to be told that if he can respect your distance and be intimate when you are ready then the experience is better for him.
Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
what are condoms :LB:
Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
Is this thread still going?
The original threadstarter is probably married and got her problem sorted by now!
Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
what are condoms :LB:
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LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLzz:CareBear:
Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
what are condoms :LB:
balloons, clowns use em all the time
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Yes u do get them in Pakistan...and they're called Saathi.....at least thats wut they were called a decade ago.....
If ur not sure how to talk to him.....as soon as he enters the room...just say... "Ghubaraaaa!.... Ghubara pehno.. "... he should get it... I think....
hahahahahhaha OMGGGGG ....... LMAO.....how can u possibly say that. that's gonna either make him crack up or just freakout and be like this girl is 'chalu' LOL
Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
yes they use them there.. they're usually known as 'saathi' there..
but ya, as someone said.. the hardest part is to ask the pharmacist where the condoms are and ask them of a certain size..