Re: i have to make the most difficult choice of my life so far…
JB 
u r so mean 
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Zoro**…
thanks for such a detailed reply…
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“First of all… I don’t think anyone can truly be “unknowingly cruel” … everyone has some sort of inclination on what will be the reaction to their action… negative or positive. Only in very rare circumstances would anyone be “unknowingly” cruel.”*
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“Secondly… I think you should do what your heart tells you is the right thing for you… Don’t worry about hurting other people’s feelings too much… People generally move on… and on rare cases hold a grudge for ever.”*
sigh… but i cant hurt those people… i just cant… i dont want to take this step which will hurt them … but i might have to …and thats killin me
do people move on…? how come i havent been able to…? i dont think people move on Zoro…
sad
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“If you make a sacrificial lamb of yourself now… would you be willing to live with the consequences later on in life… meaning… would your true feelings surface up later on in life… would you regret that you were not true to yourself for the benefit of others.”*
i will inshallah stick to WHATEVER decision i take…
insaaf ka taqaza hae…and i have to…INSHALLAH…
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“Ask yourself…. What would be good for you in the long run… Don’t be swayed by what others may think… if you are… then it’s a sign of a weak personality (in my opinion)…”*
… crying
im not swayed by what others have to think… everyone supports me and trusts me anyway ALHAMDULILLAH…its not a problem Allah ka laakh laakh shukar hae…
its jus…i have to make a “choice”… and its a tough one…
sigh…plz pray for me…
thank u so much for such a detailed reply
you seem to be new to GS…welcome