Fine. Cuddlemuffin. There happy? Seriously no pleasing any woman. Your first two paragraphs contradict each other. You state that for men it goes through the lens or frame by which men are socialized. The same should apply to women. Women are socialized in Pakistan at very similar methods. Yet you state that is due to diversity. The diversity in upbringing is the same for men and women. It does not change. Nor does the manner of social condition. Each one is unique. That applies to men and women you would agree with that right?
Men have so far shown they are in fact in sync with their views and the life they wish to lead. Agreed?
They also tend to show the most logical responses to issues when not trolling. Agreed?
Diwana is awesome. Agreed?
Cuddlemuffin? Henceforth, I’ll shall respond to Empress of the Universe
Okay going back to the the supposed contradiction in my statement - I disagree - there is no contradiction. Men are socialized to behave in a way that engenders consistency in their responses. It goes back to their logical, objective approach which removes emotion from the equation - they see a problem and they seek to remove obstacles that they believe have created the problem. The assumption is that problem solved, therefore issue solved.
Women on the other hand are socialized to be emotional and empathetic and their empathy and emotions manifest themself into possibly transference of their own emotions and experiences onto another’s issue, but also their ability to try to connect with the emotional impact of the situation. They seek to resolve not just the “issue” but the emotional grievances underlying the issue. It’s the idea of treating the symptom or the cause.
Again, as stated before, I’m not saying the guy’s approach is wrong or the girl’s approach is wrong - it’s just different.
And, so totally not agreed! What did I say about hell and ice yesterday…
I think both men and women have a different way of expressing themselves. While women band together, men do it too. It is more about men identifying their issues with other men and women doing likewise with other women and less about men being in some ‘‘brothahood’’ or women acting being in ‘‘feminist sistah hood’’. Not true imo.
For women some issues are more important and men consider those issues not worthy enough. For men some issues are important to them and women do not consider those worthy enough.
Its not about men vs women. Its more about how sometimes both genders think differently and hence act differently based on that thinking.
**hi Reha, hru? i’m at work, just taking a peek here .
to answer ur Q, i wud say its men’s negative and disrespectful and indecent attitude towards women on GS. they treat as if they don’t have sisters and mothers. i’m sure their decency kicks in when their sisters are at the receiving end. i’m NOT naming names here but we all know who they are. sad though!**
**hi Reha, hru? i'm at work, just taking a peek here . :D
to answer ur Q, i wud say its men's negative and disrespectful and indecent attitude towards women on GS. they treat as if they don't have sisters and mothers. i'm sure their decency kicks in when their sisters are at the receiving end. i'm NOT naming names here but we all know who they are. sad though!**
Just between you and me Sehrysh likes arguing with me :p
I feel sorry for CM - I worry about his mental well-being. So I let him feel important and as if someone is actually reading what he's writing. After all, he is doing khidmat-e-khalq - so it's the least I can do for humankind.
