I have generally noticed

[Sehrysh]

Re: I have generally noticed

@CM

Fine. Cuddlemuffin. There happy? Seriously no pleasing any woman. Your first two paragraphs contradict each other. You state that for men it goes through the lens or frame by which men are socialized. The same should apply to women. Women are socialized in Pakistan at very similar methods. Yet you state that is due to diversity. The diversity in upbringing is the same for men and women. It does not change. Nor does the manner of social condition. Each one is unique. That applies to men and women you would agree with that right?

Men have so far shown they are in fact in sync with their views and the life they wish to lead. Agreed?
They also tend to show the most logical responses to issues when not trolling. Agreed?
Diwana is awesome. Agreed?

Cuddlemuffin? Henceforth, I’ll shall respond to Empress of the Universe

Okay going back to the the supposed contradiction in my statement - I disagree - there is no contradiction. Men are socialized to behave in a way that engenders consistency in their responses. It goes back to their logical, objective approach which removes emotion from the equation - they see a problem and they seek to remove obstacles that they believe have created the problem. The assumption is that problem solved, therefore issue solved.

Women on the other hand are socialized to be emotional and empathetic and their empathy and emotions manifest themself into possibly transference of their own emotions and experiences onto another’s issue, but also their ability to try to connect with the emotional impact of the situation. They seek to resolve not just the “issue” but the emotional grievances underlying the issue. It’s the idea of treating the symptom or the cause.

Again, as stated before, I’m not saying the guy’s approach is wrong or the girl’s approach is wrong - it’s just different.

And, so totally not agreed! What did I say about hell and ice yesterday…