please advise. i have fallen for someone who is 11 years my senior. what should i do?> its crazy because i like him so much and he doesnt know about my feelings for him.
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3 Questions for you first:
1) How old are you?
2) Is this man single?(as in no wife, no fiance, no gf)
3) How do you know him?
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1) How old are you? 2) Is this man single?(as in no wife, no fiance, no gf) 3) How do you know him?
i am 17, i think he is single and the third i cannot disclose incase he reads this thread
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So you're 17 and he's 29. If you're not 110% sure that he's single....that means you don't know him that well.
The fact that you don't know this man very well....combined with your young age(and yes, 17 is young even though it doesn't seem like it to you), my advise is forget about him. This isn't going to lead to anything good.
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the age difference shouldnt be a factor...if u like him u like him doesnt matter how old he is.
Just get to know him better....you are young and u may not see it as such but girls your age are pretty naive (im not saying that u are but generally speaking) so just be careful especially because older guys prey on young girls like yourself.
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this one is from this forum and i think he is not some kind of predator looking for young girls. may bohat duhki hon wanna cry
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"think" being the operative word...which means u are not sure :)
why are u dukhi...he doesnt even know that u are interested in him....maybe he wont care about the age.
dont ever cry over a non-mahrem man...its not worth the tears...trust me!!
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really ok, maybe you are right about the age. maybe he wont mind then again maybe he will mind a lot:teary1:
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Are u in LOVE with him?** If yes go for it girl and let him know caz Love is a beautiful thing**
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Did you meet this man online? How many times have you met him in person?
*One more thing....you know all those horror stories we hear about girls getting raped/killed....or even something as "simple" as getting their hearts broken by someone they "thought" they knew....I bet you not one single of those girls thought they were communicating with a predator either. *
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Age is nothing but a number, but be honest with yourself aishaindubai, because in the end that is what will matter.
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id just stay quite about it for now aisha…get to know him better 
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aishaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
shall i let him know?
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^everyone of you are right. a matter afact he just asked me to become a friend. angel eyes you are right as well and i will agree with nstar777 as well
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shall i let him know?
inzi are you ok? obviously not! please keep this between us for now.
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ok,..i'll be bak in a while,....gtg,....................
i am ok,..............anyway its a bit obvious now,.............u've made it obvious,....magar i won't let it out through my mouth,.......
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best of luck Aisha....just be very careful because this is online afterall and you cant be 100% sure if the person you are talking to is who they say they are unless u get to know them on a personal level.
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^thanx angel eyes]. i will keep that in mind but if any body has any other suggestions i am open
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love looks not with eyes but with heart