I have fallen for someone who is 11 years my senior

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thank you for telling me that

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EYES never give you the pain, It is always the HEART

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true i have already broken my heart once because of my fiance.

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what else do u know about this 'online 11yr old senior'?

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i know alot? what do you mean? tell specifically?

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At 17 you already have an ex-fiance? :eek:

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Online romances arent too swell anyway (generally speaking)

What if he’s bald :disgust:

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mujhe to daal hi kaali wali lagti hey… :naraz:

Guppan … is he some shaikh or who here on GS is around 28-29 ? :hoonh:

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^just because you never got proposed that doesnt mean i didnt ok.

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^ :D
I am already married

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online love is foolish..never a good idea to fall in love with something or someone thats not infront of your eyes.but even then it can be intense and passionate.

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from how much u hv said....mayb ull b over him soon

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17 uhhhh? :hoonh:

well first you have to grow up, get some degree and if the guys is STILL single by then, GO FOR IT :bigthumbb you have my blessing :k:

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ha! Getting proposed by idiots wouldnt make me proud of it :snooty: :snooty:

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:chai:

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that is the sweeeeeeetest thing iv ever herd...u shud get to know him better...n also if uv only talked over sum chat room...then u shud meet him n find out how he realy is....:D ...all the best

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I think what you're experiencing now is an infatuation. It's natural for us to be attracted and intrigued by others, and to feel good/special when they show similar interest. Sometimes we confuse this with love and lust. At the moment, I think you've met someone new online and like chatting with him. It may be fun to flirt and imagine a fanciful life together, but be careful. You are too young to be making lifelong decisions at the moment. As lifeless said, you'll be over him soon. Or perhaps he will remain a friend or a nice memorable person in your life. But not necessarily someone to spend you life with.

I'm actually pretty shocked by some of the responses in this thread. You need to be careful when advising someone, especially when it is someone impressionable and young who is talking about developing strong feelings for someone who is significantly older and practically a stranger. I'm not saying he's a bad guy, but he's mentally and emotionally in a different place than Aisha.

It might be fun to think about cliche'd examples of some sort of idealistic love, but the real world doesn't work that way.

Please be careful.

Aisha, take some time to try out new things, get an education, explore your interests and ambitions. As you grow a bit older, if you still feel like it is worth pursuing a relationship with this guy and he seems to be someone reliable, perhaps you can pursue it. Not now.

noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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by far the best post......aisha i really think you should adhere to this.

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pm him :D

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WTH is wrong wiht grlz now !!! :smack: