Re: I hate my mother
I dunno where u live but if u r in state or canada u can get government support too or hire a caretaker/nurse FT/PT.This way u'll get some break for urself.having a special "me-time"helps a lot in coping with stressful situations.
Re: I hate my mother
I don't know your age...but you should move on with your life...Try to ignore her (bad stuff) I know it is really HARD to live with soemone like this ..specially your own mom...my heart goes out for you....a mother is suppose to protect, love, and take care of you, not to hurt you and make evil plans towards you....but obviously she has medical problem which can't be ignored.... Just pray for her .......pray for your self as well...keep some distance...don't be around her too much...i know she is ur mom it's hard to do that....but she will hurt you more and more (not purposely) if you be close to her..... be nice with your father, and siblings and eventually they all will see where the problem is ... be nice to her at the same time, if something bugs you a lot i think u have a right to say that to her that mom this is wrong etc etc..u know just say it to her in a loud voice....i am sure after this she 'll be careful...sometimes parents need to hear their kids in a loudspeaker....(i don't think that will be being rude to her, u have to fix a problem so you are trying to do it by using different ways)
your move on with ur life.....make good friends (i am sure u have), takecare of your self, of your health, do what ever you love to do, study what you want to study......just concentrate on something else........
I pray that May Allah give you a lot of happiness in future. amin.
Re: I hate my mother
Where's your father throughout this whole thing? Should HE be the one helping your mother? What will happen when you get married and leave, your father needs to be a man and live up to his promise of taking care of his wife.