Re: I hate my mother in law
And if the son and his wife decide to move out, it will still be seen as something negative.
Even I have had interference issues from in-laws to the point of controlling what I do with my savings and what not. They have this unrealistic expectation of izzat, which probably means the daughter in law probably licking their feet. I don’t know, I tried to play nice up to a certain point but when it got to an unbearable point, I just shut them out of my life. So it’s like a hello, how are you whenever I have to talk to them.
I wish it wasn’t like that but nothing comes before dignity and self-respect. Too bad, in our desi culture we have some twisted expectations we don’t expect our daughters to put up with yet daughter in laws have to follow it all.