I hate men

[inspiron]

Re: I hate men

@Ashy2010

Inspiron, what do you think, wouldn’t it have been better if this father kept quiet and did not call your dad to say no and give the reason? Sometimes I think its better for them to be quiet than call us and identify all the negatives in us . I think those people should definitely reply with their negative response with whom the matter proceeded to next few steps (like the guys you met and talked to etc.). But for people whom you sent the pic only, should have kept quiet. It hurts when we have spent so much time and efforts on some people and then they just disappeared. I don’t mind if people don’t reply after seeing my pic, I consider it a negative response obviously. But when some people don’t reply after 2-3 visits, bhot ghussa ata hai

So many moms ask my mom over the phone how does I look like, whether I am pretty, fair, slim etc. My mom replies, apni aulad tau sab ko achi lagti hai. Allah ki bandi hai ap khud dekh lein phir decide karain

I agree with you Ashy that families should not phone and say no or comment on photos when its a No from them without visiting, it is a little hurtful to my parents to hear, didnt really see the point.

But when people come and visit and phone you over and over then disappear yes then it is very frustrating.

what has particulalrly annoyed me about this family is their superficial nature despite the whole family being highly educated