Re: I hate men
Inspiron, dont think that your complexion is turning people away. I have a fair complexion but still facing rejections. Sometimes, below and average looking guys and their families don’t like my pics and sometimes very good looking guys like my pic and I receive compliments from their families that I am pretty. This leaves me thinking that a person may be good looking in the eyes of some people while for others, he/ she may not be attractive.
Always remember, whoever is meant for you will definitely like your pic and you. If others don’t like your pic, give them a damn. I have a friend with sanwali complexion but one family was so persistent in getting her proposal. So whoever is meant for you, Allah Swt will give him special sight to see your positives beyond your complexion. They will be blocked from seeing any other gori chitti girl and they will not get attracted to anyone but you.
So don’t care about such superficial people who think complexion is a way to judge a girl. They are jaahil people (although many edcauted families come under this categories along with their demands for jehaiz).
Just keep yourself fit, wear colours that suit you, have lots of self-confidence in you. Common girl, you are a doctor, a good intelligent young lady, belong to a good family… you have got so many positives. Concentrate on them. Hugs 