omg tigerlilly, u r in the same sitiation as my mother was for soo many years. I had to grow p in the most terrible circumstances.....and evrytime i would see such things happening..my bloodd would boil..even at a young age i would start hating my dadial..
pm me if u wanna talk. trust me. u have to solve this for the sake of ur child. I can help you. It fell to me as a child to solve a lot of this nonsense. I dunt wanna share wit every1 buh i think i can srsly help u.