Perhaps u need a mini-break lilly, you shud try and talk to him about it and let him know that u're always the one compromisng and giving-in to the whims of u're in-laws. No one else wud be able to relate to u here, u urself have to sit him down and give him facts. NO girl wud take insults when it comes to her family and u shud make that known to him. He has to respect u and u're family too..