why will my right of selection make them unhappy? if i love my parent, i would find a reasonable way where my wishes and their demands never conflict.
Easier said than done.. Not everyone is lucky enough to have reasonable parents.. some will throw a hissy fit over things like their kid not wanting to marry a cousin.. or a doctor :(
Don't lose your deen for any human...don't disobey the almighty for a man, Don't prefer any human over your Lord. You have one life, one chance , does your love for this man exceed your love for Allah swt or your parents?
she should wait. she may call in few days. or try to contact her siblings.
you know, siblings are always insider, they will let her know the current situation of home.
I understand that she is the only child, that might explains for her behaviour. As the only child she might be given so much love that she assume that she could get away with murder.
Love what 'soconfused' said..forget parents forget jahil muslims but u r going against what Allah has mentioned in the quran..wont u b questioned about this on the day of judgement? Will u give the same excuse to Allah that oh there were so many jahil muslims out there that I had no choice but to go against u..no matter how many jahil muslims u have seen what u r doing is against ur religion u cannot justify it. May Allah guide u.
I know all these advices dont really mean anything to u cause u obviously came here to vent and u have made up ur mind(which only Allah can change) but i had to say what i just did what if Allah questions me on the Day that u saw a muslim going astray still u didnt do anything to guide him then I'd b ashamed
Ok. So, I'll be going home in an hour or so and will try to reason it out. To all those who gave me good advice on how to talk to mama and papa, thank you.
I've also read what everyone has to say about the religious perspective.
Since the"what now?" problem of the thread kind of resolved itself, can we close the thread please?
Thanks for all your replies...