I got thrown out of home ...now what?

NomiCA · February 8, 2012, 9:09pm

Re: I got thrown out of home …now what?

But that’s not the only choice you have. That answer is too simplistic for someone who is supposed to be an independent adult. You sound like a hot-headed teenager. There are plenty of Muslims men out there who are decent people who strive to be better.

But I think it’s too late for that kind of discussion at this point. I think you know that Islam does not allow marriage between Hindus and Muslims. That you knew the first time you met and considered a relationship with your fiance. But you continued because that does not matter to you. Don’t expect people to justify your decision or make excuses for you. You want to be independent and behave like an adult, then take responsibility for the decisions you have made and accept the consequences.

The whole tone of your thread suggests an unwillingness to recognize that it is YOUR actions and YOUR choices that are causing these reactions. Even the title of the thread, where you ask strangers “now what?”, as if you it is their responsibility to fix your silly mess. You can’t honestly be surprised at what has happened? You’re lucky it wasn’t worse.

Your fiance sounds like a good guy with a sensible head on his shoulders. And your mom seems to be doing what she can to try to rebuild relationships. Now it’s time for you to start taking ownership of the situation you created. Take steps to actually rebuild and heal, rather than destroy. Grow up.

you are agreeing with Diwana…did you realise that??