Re: I gave badwa
Yes I have offered my Parents to meet them but they never showed any interest. When I brought a new car they asked me to visit them so they could see the car, they arranged to meet me outiside a petrol station!
that’s the first time they met my son ( and husband!) my son was 4 at the time!
I have reacently been blessed by god with an angel daughter (2 months ago ) and I had planned to visit my parents 2 weeks ago. But the night before I was going to visit my dad called to cancel me coming as “mum was too ill”.
So I didn’t go, but then I later found out they had just last week gone to a wedding in Glasgow (7 hours drive from there home).
So there to ill to see me and there gran kids and too ill for me to come over to meet them, but there not too ill to go to my mums cousin sister second love marriage that is 7 hours drive away!
What strange one is saying is correct. That’s exactly how I feel.
I sometimes think is it even worth it taking my kids there as she might poison them with her words.
As my parents are not Muslim (my husband is Pakistani Muslim) and they are from a Punjabi background, my mum has a special hate for my sons Muslim name 
She keeps changing it from Aamir to Amanjeet and is insiting on it being Amanjeet. When she first met my son outside the petrol station she kept calling him Amanjeet to the point he started crying!
Now she has issues with my daughter beautiful name
I don’t know what to do any more. I want to be an example to my kids of how a good child should be but at them same time I don’t want to been seen as a door mat.