Re: I feel so hurt...i dont know if i can cope anymore...
sunset, I was going to suggest not to write letters. That just doesn't sound like a good idea. I am glad you confronted them face to face and it worked out in the end. :)
Thanks Stoppit...
Me and husband had a very long talk about this and i asked him many times if he is sure of what he is doing. Its about time. We havent decided but we will not be moving far...i know it will be hard but inshallah it will be ok. I AM vert scared of what the other family members gonna think but its my health we were talking about as well my husbands.
My MIL most probably now thinks that all this is my fault but i dont care, the truth is now out in the open. She is hurt but i have been hurt since i set foot in his place but never had the guts to say anything.
Maybe us moving out will make then realise that what they did and said really did hurt us. Alhumdullilah, i am so happy!
i am soooo happy for you…see talking to her did made a difference for you…dont feel bad…sometimes if living together is not working out its better to live apart 
Thanks yar..will send a msg through fb…sorry didnt reply earlier..just been so preoccupied with thoughts…Alhumdullilah it can only get better..
Re: I feel so hurt...i dont know if i can cope anymore...
On Sunset, atleast there is going to be an end to the every day chak chak! I am so happy for you MaashaAllah. Dont worry about the rest of the family, let them talk what they want to talk about, atleast you wont be there to see or hear it all the time!!! Just be nice and courteous to them all and you would have done your part. I think its great that your husband understand too.
Re: I feel so hurt…i dont know if i can cope anymore…
Oh wow, m’A good to know things are actually getting better
Re: I feel so hurt...i dont know if i can cope anymore...
congratulations sunset...may Allah bring u lots of happiness in ur new home.. dont worry about ur MIL, u sed how u felt & u werent rude about it thats the main thing also ur husband stood by u which shows that u werent wrong... inshallah things will get easier..remember us in ur duas too- im getting worried as im going to be moving in with my in laws, i was looking forward to it but now aahh lol xx
sunset. ur moving..hooray! :)
now theyll b less tension n more truce btwn u nd ur mil nd fil
ur lucky ..at least ur hsbnd agreed..some aurthen r not that khushkismaat.
so instd of feeling guilty.u should thank ur lucky stars!
Re: I feel so hurt...i dont know if i can cope anymore...
Yayyyy!