At times the fruits that are easily achieved have minor flaws in them, and are taken for granted (not valued very much). The good ones at the top of the tree requires more patience, efforts and prayers in order to deserve them. Allah (swt) has kept one for you, only HE knows when is the right time to bless it to you. Our mental capabilities are too limited to understand the wisdom behind HIS delaying any gift, but it definitely is in the best of our interest. (insha'Allah)
ji haaN sitaaroN se aage jahaN Haasen o jameel hai...is maqaam se sabhii ko guzarnaa paRtaa hai...ham mard bhii yehii sochte haiN k laRkiyoN kii taraH unkii shaadii maan baap jaldii se kiuN nahiiN kar dete :D ;)
Us key haan dair hai andhair nahin. Umeed pey dunya Qaim hai. Life aik complete package hai. Kisi to koi cheez jaldi milti hai kisi ko koi. Par, WOH hamesha insaaf karta hai.
Na-ummeedi kufr hai, aur shukar naimatoon ko barhaata hai. Us Zaat-e-paak key aagey tarap kar mangney ki bohat qadar hai. Tahajjud mein roney ki, waldain ki duaoon ki, farz namaz key baad dua ki, iftaar key waqat ki dua ki, maskeen ki dua ki....
girls can also marry by their choice, why not. When its even permitted in our religion. You need to be discreet anyway. We can pray but the struggle part is still yours, dudette. Look for a suitable match and do the band baja barat thing.
aur aap du’aa kareN k aap se pahle mere haath peele na sahi to kam se kam laal hii ho jaayeN kiuN k maiN u se baRaa huN 'umr meN buDDhoN kii ho jaane deN pahle