Re: I feel like im being forced to change, what shall i do>?
I am a little confused. Is the argument about what you can wear or not wear a lifetime rule or just related to where you live? Jeans and kurtis in England are harmess as are half sleeves, however if you planning to live in Pakistan you will find yourself eventually wanting to cover up more and more as the staring become more and more annoying. (I went from wearing Jeans/kurti to a burqa by the end of my 3 years there!)
Can you guys come to a compromise like agreeing not to wear half sleeves and adorning the dupatta when in Pakistan but when you come to UK, you can revert to your traditional western clothes?
Islamically, until you are officially married, you are only required to obey your parents so he has no right to tell you what to do right now and hopefully this is just his expectations for after marriage.
May I just add that it seems that you rebelling somewhat and I think it is either because you are too used to being controlled by your parents and you are fed up of being controlled..OR...you have had a relatively easy life with nobody really telling you what to do upto now. (My apologies if my insinuations are wrong).