Re: I feel like im being forced to change, what shall i do>?
Qyamat ki nishani jub aisay mashwaray milnay lagain.
Ask him why he ask you to cover your arms. It's a good question RED VELVET.
I can give you answer that It's in our religion to cover arms. That is why he is asking. Is it very bad thing to ask?
As far as I know you are in medicine field aren't you? From medical point of view it's good to cover your whole body in scorching sun it doesn't affect your skin and in winter it will save you from frost bite. lol
According to me that was a silly question from a muslim girl.
It's human nature that most people don't follow orders blindly. And there's nothing wrong with asking "why?" People don't learn if they dont' ask "why". We would not have made so many developments in medicine, technology and various areas if we didn't ask ourselves "why?"
Even ordinary people must have asked their Prophets, "why?"
When somebody asks a question........then they will get an explanation from that person. It's a process known as *HEALTHY COMMUNICATION! *
And, YES, I do know the various reasons for why arms should be covered...including from an Islamic perspective.
But keep in mind........that people can have different reasons for their expectations.
Someone might request you to cover arms for safety reasons....someone else might request you to cover arms for religious reasons.....
People have different reasons. I ONLY suggested her to ask her husband "WHY"........as a way of OPENING COMMUNICATION and STARTING a DISCUSSION PROCESS with him that could hopefully create understanding between them
And.........did you see some DREAM....that I belong to the medical profession?
I belong to the field of education.......where it is encouraged to look at things from various angles and to ask questions to gain knowledge.