I feel like im being forced to change, what shall i do>?

[Lois_Lane]

@Natasha<3;6442660

My mom says you gotta set the standard of the relationsip in the beiggining. If hes like this when ur just engaged he might get more uptight later on. I mean this is supposed to be the phase of the guy when he is supposed to be impressing you.If this is him impressing you. boy needs to up his game.If you hate the idea of the lifestyle you have to adopt .talk to him about. Because otherwise youre gonna have to stick with it. life is too short and although its good to compromise …dont let him take control of the relationship like this.

@PunchingMonk

your mom prepared you for a disaster, Good Luck

Couldn’t agree more with you PunchingMonk.

Natasha<3: Guy in Nadz case, isn’t trying to impress infact he is being himself, Its way better than those guys who tries to impress girls before the wedding and after the wedding give shock of one’s life by showing their true colors. Purely hypocrites.

Sadz and SU gave great replies with great reasoning. :k:

Only thing I see wrong with this couple that they keep track of how much sacrifices and compromises one did for the other one. I mean come on, who does that especially when you love each other. Yes, things can’t be all gloomy n bloomy all the time when you love someone but smacking on each other’s face constantly about who did what for the other one .. umm doesn’t seem healthy for the relationship.

I would suggest first sit down and ask each other that why do you guys remind each other who did what for the other person? Is that what love for you guys? Im surprised.