I feel like im being forced to change, what shall i do>?

[NJMasti]

@nadz123

OK well as ppl know im engaged. and we like each other alot…im from uk hes from pakistan hes been here 3 yrs, we r cousins…anyway i seem to be compromising the most. he wants me to dress a certain way, do certain things, and its too much. HE says hes compromised enough by letting me wear trousers as long as its with long tops, so i said what about jeans with long tops and he dont lke jeans..like wat the hells the difference…and he doesnt like half sleeves etc, he wants me to wear scarf and i refused, so he said hes compromising by letting me not wear it. is he really?
AND i said that i dont expect any thing from you on your appearance, and he says that my issue, if i expect something from me i should say it so that he can compromise with me, but i dont, but thats cos i dnt like telling somone how to look, just like i dont like HIM telling me what to look like. He said he compromised by trimming his beard, now i only said itl look nicer, i didnt mind if he did it or didnt, so thats not really compromise. and if it is, its only one…per my 100.

on top of that, i know ive got to be a good lil wife and cook and clean, which im already hating the idea of, but have got used to it and now these things are bothering me too. its my fault hes alwyas been this way but i thought hed mellowed out.i dnt know. what to do.

what? you started another dilemma / controversy thread ? and I was not even aware of it =(

wow it has reached the END of page two - I will need A LOT of dedicated time to “catch up” :more =(

okay I’m too busy today - don’t have time to be on GS… maybe tomorrow