Re: I feel like im being forced to change, what shall i do>?
Sadzzz **and **SU made some great points. For a while I forgot that Nadz was moving to Pakistan. And when SU brought it up, I remembered how the men in Pak have more of a staring problem than the guys over here....even if a woman is dressed conservatively. And the way things are going in Pak, the lack of compliance to rules,....it's best to draw little attention to yourself. I wear half-sleeves in Pakistan during the summer sometimes, but when going out...I drape a dupatta over my head/arms....even though I don't do hijab. And it's funny how the desire to wear a dupatta comes to you immediately and instinctively once you sense men coming out of their stores to gawk at you, eeeew! Flashback, lol.
In Pakistan....the dressing issue is a little trickier, so work with him/bargain on that. And if you feel that there is a struggle on issues besides clothes...then talk to him about how you feel...calmly. ;) Bargain.