i feel jealous...its stupid i know!

[Nisha25]

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why would my husband be jealous of her.....hes not a girl! i was just pointing out that him being a guy he doesnt find her to be good looking at all and im sure many other guys would agree too....so why are you girls getting jealous of her for no reason? this logic doesnt make sense!

i know you mean well and i'm not jealous in a bad way, but acknowledging the fact that iman ali or amna haq are beautiful doesn't take anything away from me. i'll still feel confident about myself and secure in myself but i wouldn't do it by feeling happiness that some men call claudia lynx a witch. that's just an unhealthy way of seeing another woman's good qualities

[Nightwalkr]

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suddenly, i dont know why, i feel a sudden urge of jealousy to another girl who is in my year.

She is iraqi and insanely beautiful, she is super skinny and got amazing hair. She has a perfect pakistani boyfriend who treats her amazingly well, she recently went on holiday around the orient with her best friend and the pictures look amazing and she is doing reasonably well at uni.

When i talk to her/hear about her/see pictures of her on facebook i start feeling sorry for myself.

Why cant i be so skinny and eat anything i want, why cant i find a perfect pakistani boyfriend, why dont my parents let me go travelling, travelling is something i really want to do but my parents think its weird.

Its really stupid and fickle and i feel guilty and its sickening to feel so jealous. when i talk to her im not horrible to her or anything because shes actually a very sweet girl.

erugh i just had to vent.

Why is it soo hard not to care or give a damn about people? Maybe if you are promoted to GS Mods you will get to learn that very skill.
For them its like:

Rule#1: Follow the GS Policies and do not treat others unfairly. Only if they violate these rules are to be warned, temp banned, or perma banned.

Rule#2: Ignore rule#1 and go nuts on ppl you dont like or feel annoyed from.

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But in college life. The only way you can make others jealous is that you live your life and be yourself. And dont care about this girl whom you are jealous with. If she is a friend of yours. Be friends with her, smile, have fun, chitchat and study to do well in the univ.

Forget about the girl. Either curse her, or wish her blessings. Either way you need to get over it, and move on so you can do better.

[Nisha25]

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there was an episode of "sex and the city"(yes i watch it and i'm not embarrassed to say so :p)

where charlotte was feeling really insecure about how other women were so confident about their bodies but when one of those women complimented her on how perfect her upper body looked and that she would kill to have that which charlotte possesses, it just totally made her day. we're all going to feel some insecurity in life but all it takes is a tiny compliment to pep ourselves up again.

i want to buy one of those clapping machines that would go off everytime i enter a room, that would feel so good :-D I think we all need one of those.

[LittleFairyPrincess]

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i want to buy one of those clapping machines that would go off everytime i enter a room, that would feel so good :-D I think we all need one of those.

how sad! dont you have any real people in your life that you'd need a clapping machine!

[Spiral]

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how sad! dont you have any real people in your life that you'd need a clapping machine!

Why are you so rude to everyone here? This thread was started by someone who wanted a lil help and support to get over something. You keep on bashing people. There is a religious section also in GS where you can post all the Islamic things. Start a thread there. I am sure your rude opinions are not appreciated here.

[Nisha25]

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how sad! dont you have any real people in your life that you'd need a clapping machine!

oh i do loads, friends and family that love me lots but once in while i think we all feel not so great. :)
anyways, i'm outta this thread, bye

[princess_sarah]

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So girls whose parents let them go anywhere don't love them?

I don't follow that logic.

i dont mean that i mean parents always knw what is better for their children they knw what is right and what is wrong

[Dubaiwali]

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:k:

@Spiral

Why are you so rude to everyone here? This thread was started by someone who wanted a lil help and support to get over something. You keep on bashing people. There is a religious section also in GS where you can post all the Islamic things. Start a thread there. I am sure your rude opinions are not appreciated here.

[Dubaiwali]

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OMG. You are questioning me being Muslim? I wear abaya and hijab. I pray 5 times daily. I am a Quran Hafiz. I do charity and social work and I definitely know what jealousy is and is not. So I don’t need the Islam and Muslim lecture from you. Your post is quite refreshing actually, no one fought with me on the forums in a while. When I said you haven’t seen the world enough MATE, I meant that there are plenty of things that are going to come ahead in your life and it is unfair to say that you never experienced jealousy nor you will ever since you don’t know what’s going to happen in the future or are you a soothsayer and a fortune teller too now? Oh don’t you know it’s not allowed in Islam.

It’s a disease but yet people have it. Quran also says don’t be homosexual, but does that stop people or Muslims from being Homosexual? No. Quran and Hadith say a lot of things that people don’t follow/or they do exist in our society.

Oh and jealous of someone I don’t know? Never. Freak? Yeh that I am I love beinga freak. Nerd too that gets 4.0 GPAs and a dork. Name calling is so immature

@LittlePrincess

you’re the one who was judging me by saying that i havent seen the world enough…so what are you going on about you jealous freak?

oh now dont tell me you’re jealous of me too?

listen are you a Muslim? if yes then have you read the Quran and hadith…which says that you shouldnt be jealous…and that its a disease.

you have seen enough of jealousy…now just once try to see someones happiness as your happiness and then you will see how good it is!

[Niksik]

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[admin] People people, refrain from personal attacks please. I’m watching [/admin]

[Dubaiwali]

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Lo so, ciò che è buono

[bipashaamishi]

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well super skinny girls get the attention, people say oh its all about curves, well where is the evidence?
So girls whose parents let them go anywhere don't love them?
yes if you are fit and not chubby..

[Marmalade]

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@qtchick

Well…my parents are so friendly and shweet they let me go anywhere I want & that too Alone. I have traveled to so many countries and going to EU tour after eid InshaAllah :shoaby:. I am well connectd with them through vdo conf/calls and keep them updated. Beside that they trust me and on what they have taught me about norms & limits .They know about all my male friends and their families and in fact we sometime arrange gtg…so it become more like family friends.

and jealousy thing…I never feel jealous of anyone. I believe everyone have something special in them.
But Loads of gals and guys get jealous of me :no: …I never got any clue why do they feel jealous. May be my life style or something.

I dont think am someone extra ordinary pretty…just a fair complexion and broad body structure. but lately I found out why girls get jealous of me when they ask me, how do I manage to maintain my “Figure & curves” I never thought it can be a reason of feeling complexed …its just something natural, some healthy diet and aerobics. Is it a big deal? Now I really enjoy when at gym girls come and ask, " Hey what do You eat…You got bombastic figure"

Haha…girl really can go insane sometimes. there are better things to be considered then this.

[Confucius]

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Littlefairy - You’re being really vindictive..

Life is not black and white and each human being will go through doubts and cannot get a clear answer of what is right and wrong..

Inspiron and Nisha25 are being honest which I don’t think you are.. it feels to me like you’re the one who is jealous because you can’t help but bring people down

Inspiron, it makes us feel bad when we are jealous of someone who actually seems like a nice person and one thing I can guarantee is with a little hard work and a loss of a few pounds you will feel so much better and not so jealous of her, like another poster said there may be many things which iraqi girl worries about but she may not tell you or how do you know in the future she won’t have issues.

My parents were strict to a certain extent on travel , I travelled but not as much as I wished and now that I am married I can travel anywhere I like.. with the safety and peace of mind that I am with someone who ALLAH has bound me to..

Our parents want to protect us and as good muslims they are fulfilling their duty, take it as blessing in disguise

@LittleFairyPrincess

how sad! dont you have any real people in your life that you’d need a clapping machine!

[Disney_Princess]

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there was an episode of "sex and the city"(yes i watch it and i'm not embarrassed to say so :p)

where charlotte was feeling really insecure about how other women were so confident about their bodies but when one of those women complimented her on how perfect her upper body looked and that she would kill to have that which charlotte possesses, it just totally made her day. we're all going to feel some insecurity in life but all it takes is a tiny compliment to pep ourselves up again.

i want to buy one of those clapping machines that would go off everytime i enter a room, that would feel so good :-D I think we all need one of those.

Omg, the above example is sooo me! Lol.

Seriously, I think we're all insecure over something or another, and I am too - remember my thread on here some time ago? Lol, well, let's just say I'm trying to count my blessings as best as possible. We've all got things that others would like, but we are given these things by Allah in proportion. Some may have more of one thing, e.g. beauty, whereas another may have more of wealth, etc.

Btw, inspiron, I'm freaking out as to how alike we are......are you sure you're not my long-lost sister?? :D

[Decent_6Chora]

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Can i have her facebook profile link?

[Sara516]

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This was such a fun thread

[Decent_6Chora]

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@Sara516

This was such a fun thread

seems like you are not jealous of anyone

[Sara516]

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Like I said....sometimes any comment is considered "jealousy" by overinflated egos. :)

[Enigmatic]

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inspiron started this topic a year ago ..am sure she has grown out of jealousy too for the iraqi girl ..:D