"i dont want to marry a fob"

Not true monk. I know a lot of ABCDs that are not either.

I think you are thinking of generation Y ABCDs - the new generation Z is something else all together.

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Well ABCDs started it,, you know FOBs kick butt thoroughly. We are known for that.

Too narrow minded, yaar!

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I'm married to a kind of fobster, he is the coolest!

Yes he has an accent still, but he is very liberal minded, very helpful & co-operative, kind and clever, and gives respect where respect is due.

If he wasn't a fob i wouldn't have even half the knowledge of pakistan as i do now. Also, bcos some of his family r in paks, it gives us a good base to visit there often.

Oh don’t get me started!

But they have something that ABCDs lack. It’s most noticible in ABCD guys. I don’t know what it is - but there is something missing.

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you are the koolest!

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well the only things he is missing can be taught.... and thats not hard....
fobs r not that bad depends if u r getting married to a fob frm a gahoon .... than its a bit difficult but again if u have a gud understand and he is willing to learn and change then its not so bad

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**The great thing about having your point of view is that I don’t have to listen to it or necessarily agree with it. You may even want to hunt FOBs for living and I woouldn’t be bothered. In your life, you’re the main character, you get to do what you want. :cheegum: **

My cousin use to say that all the time -

I don't want to marry a fob - I want someone from here. Use to drive her parents crazy!

It's a preference I guess. Some girls cannot see themselves with someone with a slight accent. Or who cannot hang out with their goray friends and will voice different ideas or thought processes. It's personal preference.

you got to be kidding me

we don't have no complex from any race what so ever!!!

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I edited my thread for clarification

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ive heard lots of people around me say that many times , however at many times you will find so called FOBS better mannered , well spoken than those that were born in the west.

and how do u define a FOB ?? his accent or what

i met many ppl in pakistan who spoke very well english with an accent but were so well mannered and treat their wives so well.

I have same thinking like you.

I would love to a FOB according to some stupid ppl.

you are more happy because you are smarter!!
Seriously.

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Fobs and abcds are people too........

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Sara - aren't you in pakistan?

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^ No...?

And they r not just for Christmas...

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What if you are neither - the what do you. I want a group to belong in! I want to stereotyped!

soory must have confused you with some other sara..