people just try to find a reason to put soemone down. i find that our people actually feel pleased when they see that htye have hurt someone.
and these days yes i also hear all this looking down upon marrying soemone from paksitan.
but people don't realize everyones situation is different and they have their reasons and their certain situations for marrying where they are marrying.
i honestly do not think marriage is a bed of roses regardless of where you marry. if that was so abcds paksitani couples would not be getting divorced after 4 or 6 months in huge numbers. so this is something you can throw in thier face next time someone says this same thing to you again.
Good post.