maybe they say that if they've heard of some hellish stories from girls who have got visa-ordered paksitnai groom.
maybe.. maybe not..
but here im just talking about when you're engaged/married to someone who maybe a 'fob' in someone else's eyes.. and outrightly someone makes that statement..
there are examples of bad people in all societies... the amount of times ive heard at uni that someone doesnt want to marry an ABCD girl but will date her.. tsk tsk.. neways to each their own..
cant do much about ignorant comments i guess