Re: I Don’t Want to Live with My In-Laws!!! Help!
I hope I can always remember this…its hard to keep focused when you’re stressed and out of your element.
But you have to try. Try to learn Urdu, for your own sake as well. Why would you not? I was born and raised in Chicago…been to Pak only twice as a kid. Made it a point to learn. Why? I men a Caucasian lady who was married to Pakistani man once…my mom said Salaam and she said “Walaikum Assalaam Aunti, kaisi hein aap?” My jaw dropped. If SHE can learn a completely different culture, food, language, religion, etiquette and way of life…so can I. So can you.
I know its easier said than done and at the end of the day you will be the one dealing with all of this. But if you don’t try you will be even more unhappy.