This is all..just so sad.
Is it? or are you just feigning concern?
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I agree with sweetu, sit him down and say all them things and say
that we have to compromise in marriage and life.Like when you said you want
to wait 2 yrs and he wants a kid straight away say look instead of 2 yrs lets wait 1 year
and say im compromising with you, now you need to too.
Chances are that you may not even get pregnant that quick as some women
take time ( i know i did ) but there is a chance your one of the ones that get pregnant
like that. You just have to sit him down and explain to him in a way he is going to listen
to you and try not get into a argument .
Is it? or are you just feigning concern?
Yes the fact that he doesnt seem to care about what you want, yet is a "great" guy, that ur just settling for him cz there are slim pickins where you are, that ur parents are breathing down your neck...i would imagine one would feel pretty trapped and suffocated.
the fact that people are advising you to take pills behind his back and be deceitful is very alarming.....and shows exactly how successful their relationships will be.
i agree with sara
please do not start your relationship on lies and deceit. imagine the day he does find your pills? it will completely ruin your relationship
what about then he knows you are trying but you dont get pregnant , what the questions that will be raised , there may be check ups.
one lie leads to hundred others and is eventually found out.
dont even think you will be able to hide it , especially not in ur purse !!!!!!
i really dont understand why people give such advice ,
try and come to a comprimise , but if it is really different things that you want then please think now before its all too late.
oh n i dunno if u guys r in the same country or watever but its better to tlk about these things face to face rather than over the fone
n if fr watever reason u can b face to face then plz dnt lose ur cool stay calm no matter wat he saysjust carry on reasoning with him, just remember always strt with a positive approach it helps 
mixed beauty- u really need to grow up beffore u go advising ppl to go behind their other halfs back, it might b the best way fr u but not nesecarily for others, besides it may b the easy way out but its the worst
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some sugguestions in here are so warped
take pill on the side? dump him cus he aint listening? he's a mullah cus he's asked her to have faith in Allah.. geez
Re: I don't want to get pregnant
^just goes to show how mature some of them are n then the maturity of the person that actually listens :)