instead of saying ‘no i DONT want a baby …followed by watever reasons’
try saying
‘I DO want a baby n i realise u want one too but i would like to enjoy my time with u first and THEN have a baby. We can finish our studies b more stable n then i will b able to dedicate all of my time to the baby rather than having to juggle with studies being pregnant housework or watever, yeah i realise ur here fr me n u will help n all but (i assume he will b wrking) if im studying at the same time its gonna b slightly more difficult’
