Re: I don’t want to get pregnant
Deception really is not the best way to start a life long relationship. I doubt he’d be amused if he found out you’d been on the pill behind his back and I think you’d always be on edge through fear of getting caught out. It’s not worth the pain it would cause.
I’ve always been told not to make such comments as ‘I don’t want a baby straight away’ or ‘I’m not ready to be a mum’ because all of that is down to Allah anyway. What if you find out 4/5 years down the line that you can’t have children? What if you have difficulty conceiving?
Yes you want a career, but you must also consider you hubby’s feelings too. You need to have a serious discussion with him about it. Find out what his expectations are of you and where he sees himself in a few years time. Compare this to your own plans and hopes. Try to come to some sort of agreement/middle ground that works for both of you.