totaly agree, for example i am 24 years old right now. lets say if i get married maybe when i am 25 and i want to have kids within first year because i do not want to be that old mother, i want to be one of those young mother who are more friendly with her kids than the whole “amma” deal, and my husband tell me, oh no honey lets wait till next 5 years. dude i would be pissed seriously.
so those kind of things should be discussed first.