that is not the point, the point is that the person she wants to enjoy her early days of marriage doesn’t agree with her plans. if both agree they can do what ever they want, but if one does not then why the poor guy has to suffer either??
from what she described about him, he seems like a pretty decent guy who wants her to finish her PhD and stuff, all he wants is children, it is not like he is restricting her to the house and babies only. i mean he has his wishes and dreams too just like she does. why is her dreams so much more important than his? and my point is that if they are having a huge conflict about this kind of issue then maybe they need to rethink their decision of marriage.