I don't want to get pregnant

Re: I don't want to get pregnant

i think you are puttign your career in front of your family. which is fine, but then why do you want to marry him? just stay engaged till you are ready to get married and start a family. i don't understand why when this kind of topic comes everyone takes the girl's side. i know that maybe it's because the whole carrying the child for 9 months and delivery, but when a guy marries he might have his own dreams and wishes too. and if those things are conflicting so much then it's better not to marry each other so one can peruse her dream of higher education and other can have his own family.