hey lipstick. thanks for the message. he wants them badly because I think he feels incomplete if he doesnt have them. I want at least a year to enjoy my time with him before it’s all nappies and early wake up calls. We both are students and I just dont understand his logic behind the need to have children. I just see my dreams, ambitions going up in smoke but then I think to myself that having a career isn’t the only thing worth having in this world and maybe Iam being too selfish, I don’t know.
I just know I am not mentally prepared to be a mum. It’s yucky and tiring.
Iam not doing the BVC as I’ll be heading to Canada. I have to take about 8 exams and then article over there.