Re: I don't want to get pregnant
why does he want to have kids so badly straight after marriage? most ppl i know want to spend atleast a yr together just enjoying married life before they even have kids. do u think he's doing this because he doesn't want u to be a career woman? does he have any problem with u wanting to pursue a career? i think i read somewhere that u want to become a barrister. there is no way u can have a baby even in one years time if u havent yet started ur training. i have friends who are doing the bvc and according to them its so hectic. if u really want to seriously pursue a career as a barrister he's gonna have to wait a lot longer to have kids! and u have to make him realise that its ur body and he cant force u to have kids straight away and there are other things in life u want to do first. nothing wrong with that at all.
if all else fails then its upto u to decide if u want to take contraception without him knowing