You make sure you do your studies and get your career b4 you have kids. Again this is how men ‘manipulate’ women. Do you seriously think your gonna be able to do that when you’ve got a baby? Never. Hes saying you can, but back of his mind he doesnt really want you too, He wants to get you pregnant, and a full time mum/wife.
If i was in your situation i wud take them, If hes being like that, You be like that too. After i get married i wanna do my studies too, I wud never have a baby till 2years later. Atleast.