Shaadi mat karo! Larkaun ke kame nahin hai duniya main.
hey LUT how r u :D
Re: I don't want to get married
"Mankind fear your Lord, who created you of a single soul, and from it created its mate."--Quran (4:1)
learn to respect each other...everything will fall into its place......and observation is a very powerful learning tool...by completely rejecting the thought of marriage..you will be missing out on a very beautiful part of your life.
btw....it says "mate" so you wont have trouble taking care of one...it certainly would be a problem if it were to say "mates".. :)
look, you can't even answer...are you laughing about yourself? I thought you are progressive...
Im laughing at you because you sound like teen bacchon ke baap!
I don't want to be a bad husband, don't want my wife to hate me, don't want my mother and wife to fight..blah blah
40 yrs old virgin
shark man thts harsh...
just wondering has criketplaya changed his thoughts on marriage??? lol
Men are absolutely oblivious to everything around them...thats why they dont complain. They just exist.
THEY dont have to move to a strange home, its always the girls who make the adjustments.
Men dont have to deal with their mothers, its the DIL.
Men dont have to cook.
Men dont have to clean.
Men dont have to bear children.
Men arent even required to look nice.
Men dont have to live with THEIR MIL's.
Yet here you are fearing marriage because - OH NO - your wife and mother might argue and your delicate and sensibilities cannot handle that!
If ONLY the above has YOU fearing marriage, what do you think WE go through?
Hm? Kabhi socha hai ke larki pe kya guzarti hai?
go girl!!!
see my embedded comments bwlow...
Men are absolutely oblivious to everything around them...thats why they dont complain. They just exist.
*** huh, can you repeat that please (lowering volume on Chicago bears versus Colts season opener)
THEY dont have to move to a strange home, its always the girls who make the adjustments. *** hey I wish I could move into your parents home (I can save on mortgage)
Men dont have to deal with their mothers, its the DIL.
*** hey I dealt with her for 3 decades, it's your turn baby!
Men dont have to cook. *** trust me with her cooking skills, I HAVE to cook
Men dont have to clean. *** if your standards for cleanliness are borderline insane, then you clean. Honestly, with Swifter, vacuum cleaners and clorox wipes, cleaning ain't that big a deal.
Men dont have to bear children. *** but have to live thru nine months of hell with the wife's tantrums. at least the mother gets the satisfaction of accomplishment when she delivers the baby...what does the man get other than been reminded of the hardships the woman goes through
Men arent even required to look nice. *** I thought women like them 'dirty' ;)
Men dont have to live with THEIR MIL's. *** not true...the wife in most cases is a duplicate of her mom and thus the poor man has to live with the double whammy
Yet here you are fearing marriage because - OH NO - your wife and mother might argue and your delicate and sensibilities cannot handle that!
If ONLY the above has YOU fearing marriage, what do you think WE go through?
Hm? Kabhi socha hai ke larki pe kya guzarti hai?
lagta hai most desi women are freaks about cleaning and stuff (unfO i missed out on that gene)
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/household-affairs-cuisine-corner/292792-keeping-house-clean.html
Re: I don't want to get married
:D
they are freaks and complaints at the same time :D...I saw a desi movie where the actor (husband) wanted to enter the kitchen, the actress (wife) didn't let him in and pointed him to the table "this is my place, there is your place" :D
Re: I don't want to get married
if GS is a way to vent for some people.. dont let that be the basis of u not starting a life with someone..
u never knw who u might meet and she might be someone who can carry everything in harmony and go a long way with your family.. tough times hit.. things get sour.. MIL's and DIL's might have a little tussle here and there.. and mostly they are quiet ones.. not the kind where they are plotting against each other..
communication is key.. give your wife respect.. give your mom respect and lay some guidelines down for yourself.. mothers can get protective about the fact that a woman has entered her sons life and may try to 'take' him away from her.
Also, in this day and age.. im sure talking to a potential girl, getting her intro'd to the family and maybe even trying to get her to build a relationship with your family is pretty normal.. helps a lot down the road.. as it makes the transition for both her and ur family easier..
so dont let some stuff get u down..
I find Marriage was the best thing that could have ever happened to me.. and iA it shall be the same for you too.. u just need to know how to handle everything..