Hun he isnt coming to my parents house, My dad got a different house for my granny, and now she wants to move to a diff city. But im not sure if hes gonna stay in the old city or go with her.
MB, rather than waste your time coming up with tricks to get rid of him…and rather than you having to leave the comfort of your own home (YOU should not be the one to leave)…just be very frank with your dad.
There are some girls who’d feel very embarrassed and shy about discussing such issues with their dads…you on the other hand were able to do so. So, there shouldn’t be any hesitation.
Just tell your dad that if he had invited any other person to come live with you…you wouldn’t have minded, but that this particular uncle** STILL** makes you feel uncomfortable and you’d rather that he not come live with you guys. Tell your dad that you don’t mind a short visit…but him living under the same roof makes you uneasy. Also, tell him that you’re afraid that his presence will DISTRACT you from focusing on your studies and that in this case, you’ll shift to Grannie’s house.
^If you explain everything, he might reconsider his decision. And if Pervy Perverson comes over…just greet him quickly and stay to yourself. Lock your room, so he can’t come in whenever he wants. If he asks questions…give him BRIEF SHORT answers. Don’t engage in conversation with him .
Thats what im gonna do, Jus not talk to him. But on a positive note where my granny is moving to, the whole area is jus my family (cousins/aunty uncle etc etc etc) All my family. So if he does come, then he can jus go to them, And i hav a few friends there already, and my bfs from tht area too.