i dont want my uncle to live with us

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My grannys moving house, and im gonna move in with her. Im not sure if my uncle is gonna come aswell. But i really dont want him too. Hes one of them pervy uncles, and he makes me feel really uncomfortable.

What can i do to make sure he doesnt come? Or if he does move in, How can i make his life hell living with me?

He used to liv with us in my parents house, but then he moved to my grannys, And he always used to come to my room, and even if it was jus me n him downstairs together he wud ask inappropriate questions to me.

I complained to my dad, and my dad thru him out the house. Now i really wanna go to my grannys coz i can do my course and work with my aunty, Its perfect for me. I dont want him there coz he will ruin it for me! And i dont wanna complain to my dad again coz then my dad will jus bring me home.

What shall i do?!?

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^ not go to your grannys...if he is ard.

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erm.. why?! It wud be perfect for me. Why wud i miss that oppurtunity for a perv!

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Hi

Since your dad know that story, i am sure he would not allow him to stay with you, on other side i am sure he would not allow you to stay with the granny if he is there.

Unfortunately you could not have both ways.

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Arghhh! It so disgusting to see some people behaving inappropriately when they should know better! The audacity of some people.

Sweets, maybe you should speak to your gran and tell her what the problem is?? Although, considering your father knows what he is like, is he happy for you to be living under the same roof??

I'm alittle confused...is your uncle living at your gran's already or thinking of moving there??

Personally, I would stay well away if he is going to be living there, knowing what he's like, but understand that you really want to do the course and work!

Unfortunately, can't think of anything to 'make his life living hell' as you put it! The meanest thing I did was to put salt in my uncle's tea instead of sugar haha but considering I was only 7 at the time, I got away with it!

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Well i shud of added in my post that my dad also thru him out coz he got brave to my dad, askin him to giv him money, so my dad jus thru him out. My uncle is a waste of space always in trouble. Anyways, he already lives with her, But he MIGHT fingers crossed find his own place and stay where he is, whilst my granny moves into a new house. My dads already told her tht i wanna live there.
And i really really want to go there because it opens up so many doors for me.
:( Gosh i hate him so much!!!!!

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discuss it again with your dad. You have done that before and it worked. I am sure it will work again.

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yeh kaisa uncle hai?

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how does moving in with your granny open doors for you? is she in a diff city?

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That perv uncle needs a place to live too. You cannot move into a place where he lives and then expect your dad to throw him out of that house. It is your responsibilty too to stay away from him. If that means keep living in your house then so be it.

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...said perv uncle..:D

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I agree! While your father has the right to take steps against your uncle in his house - that's no reason for your parents and you setting the terms for the rest of the family.

It's your choice to live with your granny - your relationship with her is one step removed from that of her' with her son/your uncle. If she wants him there - you can't demand that he not live there for the sake of your convenience. Look into living at a dorm or an apartment.

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Mixed Beauty - you have already had uncomfortable/bad living experience with your uncle. Try to avoid putting yourself in that same situation. Last time it was not your choice to live with him... but this time it is. Before you take any step into moving in with your granny - first make sure that the pervy uncle is definitely not moving in.

The uncle is your granny's son, so it will be hard for her to deny him a roof over his head unfortunately.

Girl, I know that it will totally suck and be completely unfair for you if you are not able to move in with your Granny and get exposed to those opportunities... but at the same time no girl should put herself in a living situation where they will feel uncomfortable. It is just not safe in general nor is it good emotionally for you. You are always going to have your guard up, always going to be wary of him, always going to get annoyed, etc. if you live with him. This is totally going to have an effect on your day to day.

Opportunities come and go girl. You are young... if it doesn't work out : don't get too upset. Look into other options of what you can do. Can you get an apartment? It will be more expensive ...but you say you will be working for your aunty. It will be totally worth having your own space AND your own peace of mind. Are there other similar courses that you can take in your area? Your aunty will always be around and mabey you can get the experience from working with her at a later time and just focus on the course now and continue living at home? These are just ideas... im sure u get my point :)

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If he starts talking nasty **** tell him on his face listen u perv back off from my life & leave me the hell alone.

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I know. I dont want to be thrown out of my own house. :D

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^ hawww haiii

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I don't understand why you can't just tell him where to go if he approaches you.
You would be in the house with your granny and you could simply raise hell if he said anything.....

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I wouldn't live in a house where such a man lives. Better safe than sorry!!

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Yep, I agree with Corrupt Angel. God forbid, what if you find yourself alone with him and he does something.... its a fact that men are physically more powerful. I would not take that risk. Please stay away from him.

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kal kisi ki jooti gum ho jaye gi and she will open a topic here...no one cares abt the precious bandwidth here.