Re: I don’t want my kids growing up in Pakistan…
i wouldnt raise my kids in pakistani because 1- ITS SO UNSAFE! bomb-blasts, shootings, rapes, child molestation is just so common there! and you cant do anything about it
2- the environment so unhealthy, pollution, garmi, loadshedding
3- people are always under stress and depressions, be it in schools(always competeing to get a higher position then the other, or lack of jobs, or all the family fights and all, society pressure, government issues, religious pressure
4- people over there are hypocrites
5- people cannot develop a normal personality, somehow they are all alike ! i dont know how to explain this poiint but yea its irritating
**6- religion over there is mostly followed for just basics like reading namaz 5 times and pardah and all. i have not come across many people who follow religion for other in details such as hwo to respect a women and what not. not allbut most of them are not really spiritually religious.
7-lack of multiculturalism or respect for other cultures/religious. rarely have i come across a christian in pakistan who doesnt work as a janitor.
8- not much out there for kids to grow up without being depressed. not many educational things.
one main reason i definetely wouldnt my kids to grow up there because my daughters would never be independent and constantly be bothered and followed by chichoray boys on their way to school and stuff! and my son would probably come another loser men in pakistan who treats women like crap and does all the crazy stuff outside and when he comes home he wants his sisters n mom in pardah. ughhhh!**
Agree..
I can’t really see the point of being religious on the outside but then prejudiced/intolerant against Blacks, Indians or whoever else or not being fair or compassionate in general.. That spiritual goodness doesn’t seem to hold as much importance imo..