I respect your opinion and yes if I was married to a Pakistani born I would raise my kids in Pak even after having the finances etc for moving out.
But after marrying a British Pakistani and living here in UK for nearly a decade now I don’t think I can go back and live there for more than 6 months, though I do plan to buy a property so my kids could visit but I feel more at home in UK. It might change if I start living in Pakistan so who knows, in few years time you might see me defending and convincing others to raise their kids in Pak. lol