I don't understand

[lahorikudi]

Re: I don’t understand

@Mad_Hatter

Are you in the UK by any chance?

From my experience, some guys tend to want to see what’s ‘out there’ as well as have fun with random girls on the sly. It’s the beginning of uni, and he’s probly thinking that there’s loads more girls to meet yet.

But whether this is the case or not, ANY guy who ignores you in front of your friends is gonna be a twit. Seriously. If he’s the type who doesn’t want his friends to ‘get the wrong idea’, what does that say about what he wants?
I’ve had this happen to me at the beginning of uni, it’s not nice, but I would say DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME ON THIS GUY.

Nope, in amreeka. yeah, I mean I think people that ignore other people are rude, in general but then, I tend to ignore guys I’m attracted to w/o realizing it because they make me self conscious and nervous. I just didn’t know if guys worked that same way.

@Paheli00

^ This. Of course, what do us angry/bitter women know about men who play games with women’s emotions?

BTW lahorikudi…the man I ended up marrying…from the very first time I met his friends…about a month after we started dating…he made it very clear that we were an “item”. The desi guy who actually ended up marrying me didn’t have the type of personality and never had any “reason” to hid the fact that we were an item. So don’t think my words are coming from a woman who thinks all men are jerks.

Thanks for the advice, it’s nice to know there are SOME nice guys left out there. hopefully.

@kakee

Hey now I thought it was the basic rule

“GS Women are all bitter old ladies who are emotionally unstable feminists and are so westernized that they hate FOBs…”

anywho

If he doesn’t talk to you in front of his friends then meh. I wouldn’t care unless you’re romantically involved with the guy which you are not. So why is it bothering you?

It only bothers me because he was so…aggressive initially with getting my number, contacting me, etc. It’s not so much bothering me as it is making me curious. And I don’t want to sit there and assume he is interested when he’s completely oblivious or be completely clueless about the fact that he is attracted to me (i have a bad habit of doing this), especially since I do find him attractive