I don't know what to do..

Lifestyle Relationships
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no, she found out when he said qabool or whatever and a puff of smoke came out. at that time she thought it was special effects. recently it has been concluded he's an evil smoker.

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wth!

go buy your own groceries and EAT! You are pregnant!!!!

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My head hurts too - which leads to think:

You made yourself sound destitute and almost like you're in an abusive marriage. All you need to do is plan out your shopping better. If $$ is an issue, learn to cook and make stuff at home. Don't let him wait until its all gone to go grocery shopping again. It sounds like he is a serious smoker - which is why he gives priority to cigs but it seemed from your posts that he was spending ALL the grocery cash on his habit and nothing was coming for you even though you're pregnant. Help him quit, have him talk to your doc, etc.

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Yeah and the imagination lent itself to invented spelling. # 1 on that list should be the ambiguity of whether the username is perseverance (reflecting emotional state), or refers to the act of preserving (sanity maybe?), or she’s Irish and it refers to Saints Parsarvus. :hmmm:

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I am sorry, I haven't got back to you all lately. Have been so busy lately n caught up with things. Listen need a word of advice, I have just started second trimester and I have been selected for an interview for a good pos!!!!. Shall I mention I'm pregnant or leave out of it. My bump is starting to show but not that big or fat yet...

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lol so you just ignored everyone else’s responses and start a new problem… I think we’ve been nadz’ed :hmmm:

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Are you feeling okay?

Totally.

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I haven't ignored you all.. Like I said I have been caught up lately n wil get back to all soon. Just need a yes or no, if should I mention about my pregnancy in the interview. It's office related job not hard manual work.

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If the job is at a grocery store or snack shop, then yes, take it :khumar:

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if they ask you then say yes, if they don't then stay quiet.

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nahi...
...aur agar koi pooche tou kaho 'mujhe aksar gas ki problem rahti hai' ... :)

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Someone who has an iphone and fancy gadgets yet thinks she lives in poverty, who has a husband who calls her and her mother kutti over and over again and has no respect or regard for his unborn child and yet she thinks he’s so loveable.

You see a problem with that thinking? I don’t think any advice we give will have any effect :hehe:

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Your story sounds too strange to be real, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

YOu need to be reasonable about some of these issues. Your husband is not going to quit smoking so quickly, nor should you expect him to. It's a process and you can compromise on him at least not smoking inside the home or away from you. His family not buying you and your folks gifts, just let that go. Not everyone has the same sense of gift giving. If it hurts your family, they need to tone it down. If it doesn't hurt them, then let it go. They key issue is fixable. Buying groceries on time is fixable, just work out a schedule with him. Cursing you and your family needs to stop. Rather than get worked up over every problem, look at where you need to either let things go to keep your sanity or lower your expectations. And then talk to him and let him know that it's come to the point where you sometimes think of moving in with your parents and does he prefer that you talk about issues to your family, his folks, or does he prefer to resolve them with you within his own home?

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I can’t get over how she says she won’t eat to save food for him.

You know, if that kid were born, that’d be called child abuse…I’m jus sayin…

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There are women who equate physical satisfaction with love. I know I hate reading between the lines or pull out any psychoanalysis but there's nothing in the OP's description that remotely suggest that her husband is such a loving fella.

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What is love? Baby don't starve me no more :p

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if i were in this situation i would leave and never come back.

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Why doesn't OP reply?

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^OP is too busy looking at other ways of getting us to spend our time on her when clearly she doesn't want to discuss the problems OP originally talked about.

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thedoer and persephony on the same thread. i'm excited at the prospects that loom.