The response was to what Diamond123 had stated when she went way to far in the assumptions in this thread. I for one am not comparing the relationship but the notion of interfering. Human life is based on interaction. Only depending on personal opinion is it considered interfering.
A case to be noted. No woman would consider her mother helping out with her new born baby as interfering. The husband can. Or the wife may consider the help of the Mother in law to be interfering when the husband does not. It is all a case of perceptions based on personal comfort zones. The lady in the original post sees things that are beyond her comfort zone and instead of figuring out or reasoning it out she is making a biased judgment call against her father in law. Over dependency is a subjective issue based on family upbringing.
A child who grows up in the west will think his parents staying at his place for a vacation is over dependency. While a child growing up in Pakistan would consider his parents living with him for years as normal.
Its all about perspective and our comfort zone. She needs to take the time to see things for what they are instead of jumping off to making judgments.
your words & thoughts are too low for my attention !
I don’t care and many of us don’t care what u think , we are helping the thread opener and we will. You keep on blaming that girl and keep on siding with FIL because your mentality and perception is as low as theirs . Thats why u don’t find them wrong. Well who cares what u think !
I am not going to waste more time on your posts !