You find someone attractive the first time you see her. As weeks go by and you have seen each other a dozen or so times, you suddenly stop feeling attracted to her. I know it’s all shallow and crap but it’s the truth. How do you approach the breaking up part?. Is it too rude to say outright that you don’t find her attractive anymore?. OR do you just use some other lame excuse such as, you can’t seem to have a long term future with her…but you know girls are very intrusive…they want to know the exact reason. I am afraid I will tilt under prosecution and hurt her.
PS. The above dilemma is based on fiction. Any close resemblence to real people is only by coincidence.
Well, isn't it better to break up now then to ignore the facts and get a reality wake up call one fine morning after saying qabool hay. I get ants in my pants that someone I find attractive now might not be the same say in two or three years. It's the fear. I don't know... I should think beyond physical relationship. I guess it comes with maturity.
You've got to think what you want the mother of your children to be like, how you'll relate to her when you're 60...I think perhaps you're not ready for that yet.
u told someone u find them attractive and u like them and then when they like u too and things r going fine all of a sudden u dont find them attractive anymore?
there r ups and downs in all relationships, u cant just break off and leave the other person in the lurch like that, u have to work towards it and u have to care abt the other person’s feelings
haha! no, I’m not shallow. I’m just misunderstood :crying
I understand the intracacies of marriage…wurna it just takes half hour to sign the papers :-p
I can understand the whole falling out of love stuff, but how do you not find anyone attractive anymore? unless you were very very drunk for a long time in your relationship.
^ you know MM and Irem, I think its all about the chase - the girl is incredibly attractive when she's at a distance and unattainable and all mysterious. Once they've snagged her and she's become smitten, they're like "neaaahhh...lets drop her - erase and replace".
omg how mean 
i dont get u