Re: I don’t feel like there is any other way out.
May Allah grant us the wisdom to think clearly, having said that I want to inform you that I heard a Physician (MD) state on a television program that Oily foods (foods that are prepared by frying in Oils) cause depression in people, and depression in some people can make them do weird things.
So may be if his deit is changed to baked foods, fresh fruits and vegetables with seeds and nuts, avoiding red meats, it may help him think clearly, and it may be worth saving the family! it will certainly do no harm.