I don't feel comfortable around him...

[Chavy]

When ppl hump, love blossoms.

So stop worrying about it. :D

You've transplanted your village paindoness into foreign soil, great.

[partyslims]

@mustanamalik

Both your and your husbands Khala’s… do not eat anything if they send for you…

90% of the time Khala’s do witchcraft to destroy marriages…

[redvelvet]

@partyslims

LOL…I knoweth.

But admit it…'tis the most aweosometh responseth the threadeth has seen.

Sigh I don’t even have the desire to refute it.

[partyslims]

Re: I don't feel comfortable around him...

Trueth dateht!

[soni27]

Both your and your husbands Khala's.... do not eat anything if they send for you....

90% of the time Khala's do witchcraft to destroy marriages....

its so true..thanks for the clarification..im gona be careful of everyone now ..extra extra careful

[KashmiriSadozai]

Maybe u should do a istakharah prayer...Its a matter of the rest of ur life...y nt ask allah swt for help/advice on the matter?

[ShimmerV]

Re: I don't feel comfortable around him...

Rab ne banadi jodi

[redrose1]

Re: I don’t feel comfortable around him…

^:bummer:

[redrose1]

@Chavy

**You’re a pawn being manipulated by your parents because they feel a sense of duty to their relatives. **

There’s not even a whiff of interest from you, you’ve never met your cousin and they’re steaming rolling you into this marriage, for goodness sake.

Redrose you have everything to fight for, don’t walk into this trap.

In years to come, when you’ve been drawn into bitterness and despair and your life has fallen apart, thinking back, you’ll bitterly regret not having done anything to prevent this while you still had that one chance.

I also feel so .Initially I’ve rejected his proposal, but my parents kept on forcing me,explaining all good things about him, and so finally i gave in,thinking perhaps he is the one written in my fate, and i thought i would start liking him but nothing such has happened so far.

[shera21]

@CuteGurl

Rab ne banadi jodi

ik anna te ik kori

[S02]

Re: I don't feel comfortable around him...

You should be meeting each other and getting to know each other BEFORE the wedding (ideally before an engagement) to make sure you are making the right decision. It is a decision YOU will have to live with and if you take no action, then you have no one to blame but yourself.

[Lusi]

Re: I don't feel comfortable around him...

Run!

[moizsgirl]

hmm...

[redrose1]

@Lusi

Run!

Where?!

[Lusi]

Re: I don't feel comfortable around him...

^^ away....get yourself out of this relationship.

[redrose1]

Re: I don't feel comfortable around him...

^ It isn't that easy as the parents and families are involved :(

[Red_Ruby]

Re: I don't feel comfortable around him...

redrose u need to think about urself. once ur married trust me, its u and ur husband, not all the extended family involved. think about how u will feel then. now is the time to do something about it.

when i wanted to marry my now hubby, i turned against the whole family, not one person spoke to me for weeks, but i stood my ground. i cudnt eat or sleep, lost loads of weight, and everyone was so sure that mum/dad will not agree. but eventually they did. parents cant see the pain in their children, u have to sometimes push um alot further to realise. im sure u will get what u want inshallah

[redrose1]

Re: I don't feel comfortable around him...

^ InshaAllah! :)

[AuntyNumber1]

Re: I don't feel comfortable around him...

if you're not comfortable with him you should say no to this marriage.

[razzmatazz]

Re: I don't feel comfortable around him...

I agree with the others who say give it a chance.

You haven't even given him a chance, really. Thats quite unfair. Its like saying, I dont like to eat fish, when you have never even tried fish.

If you talk to him, get to know him..whether its to your liking or not, and THEN you still dont feel comfortable, you have a solid reason to stand firm in your decision of rejecting him then. But i advise you start making that effort sooner than later, so you can make your final decision sooner than later.