Re: I don’t feel comfortable around him…
This.
I have read most of the thread and your attitude at this point seems to just accept things. On one hand, you have absolutely no chemistry/attraction/feelings for him, to the point that you pretty much dislike him. On the other hand, you don’t have the conviction to state this out right, and put your foot down to your family on this matter regarding YOUR life. Yes it is YOUR life, not theirs. But if you are resigned to it and don’t want to fight it, then don’t blame anyone later if things don’t turn out the way you want them to. I’ll say it once again: This is your life. Take control of it.