I just found today that All my life i have been a child abuser.
Yup, you guessed it right. I am a Pakistani.
I beat kids regularly, They start crying but i show no mercy i beat them regardless. I beat them in front of their parents and when no one is watching… They cry for help, but no one comes for their rescue. They go to elders and complain about me, but instead they are scorned for playing ‘Wrestling’ as they watch on tv, and told that one gets beaten up in wrestling if you do it in real life.
I know now that beating kids is called physical abuse And it is punishable offence in most of the developed countries.
I kiss, hold ,pinch hug little girls. Sometimes they kiss / hug back sometime not.
I guess this is abuse too as it is mentioned in other thread …
Yes it is. It is a shame for those people who are bashing child abused non stop, But are saying nothing here… Here i am admiting my crime and yet their lips seem stitched or they are hypnotised
Here i am shouting on top of my lungs that I ABUSE LITTLE CHILDREN. I am that uncle about whom you are talking about. I do things which would put me behind bars in no time, if i was living in a developed country. Yet you people are mum. You people are disgusting .
Is your conscience dead ? I am the one who kiss them hold them hug them. Even at times they dont like it. Is this unwated touch not considered child abuse in your country ??
Stop being lazy Asses People ! Do something. Report me. Or even if you cant do this atleast cousel me. So i could change my moronic behavior and stop abusing kids.
^ No Ma'am. This is not normal. It looks normal to you because you are sick too. People consider things to be normal which they are used to, but some times they adversely affects the personality of a child and they start seeing things differently .... or it can make them addict in worse case see Mostar95's reply, who is longing for such an abuse by his mother.
Pakistani mother need more education. They are ruthless child abuser, They even dont consider it abuse. I want to tell them ladies please lay off these corporal abuse for good. Or else ask permission from child before spanking ...like ' Can i touch you there ? ' Or else your child would grow up and tell whole world of that 'Unwanted touch at unwanted places ' that he/she experienced from a very close family member as a child.
if you think child abuse is funny, then go see some shrink.
Someone said that child abuse is rampant in pakistan. I am just reiterating the claim that yes it is !! we abuse our own kids more than anyone one else ..Men and women alike.
Do you have a problem with this fact ? Why ? Do you think it is all rubbish, then speak up.
To me it is plain double standard, because when we men are targetted all you women gang up, like there is no tomorow. Admit it women ! It is you women who do the child abuse in pakistan and we men learn it from you
The abuse woman do is physical most of the time. But sexual abuse is worst than that and dont even try to defend sexual abuse by men and how common it is. And you are the one in denile about the "sexual abuse" by men to kids.
Physical abuse is like u said common and done openly by men and woman alike.
Your tone is very sarcastic as if trying to say it isnt rampant and its only phsyical abuse that maybe. Thats why I asked if u are trying to pull one of your sarcastic things here.
Good ! Now physical abuse is no abuse at all. Because it is so common in Pakistan. Well done
My tone is sarcastic because people who have no knowledge or understanding of demography of a region, do idiotic surveys and draw obnoxious results and gulibile XBCD’s pass judgment like they know it inside out
I reckon that you people dont even understand what really is child abuse. Please go do some research. Sexual abuse is just one type of abuse out of dozen different types of child abuse. all of them are destructive for child’s mental and physical health.
What mothers do or I do is not abuse but act of affection. Sexual abuse happens in pakistan but, contrary to your perception most of the victims are boys. Because girls are protected and people keep an eye on them. Also child abuse is difficult in families living in joint family system, either it happens in extremely rich neighborhoods or extremely poor ones.
Child abuse can happen only when mother or close relative are negligent. They are mostly vigiliant in cases of girl child, but dont bother much of the safety of a boy. So they are mostly the victims.
plus it is extremely difficult to identify a pedophile among close relative. Best policy should be to never let your child stay alone with anyone. i.e there should be more then one adult around child… it is hardly a problem in joint family system.
And it is punishable offence in most of the developed countries.
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