Hi guppies, and gappas!
Okay as you all know I have three other roommates that I live with. I hate one of them. She annoys the heck of out me. I avoid her as much as possible.
Anyways, she is very lazy. She never throws out the trash. When she eats she puts the dishes in the sink. When my roommate and I wash the dishes we wash hers too, cuz it just feels wierd not to wash her dishes when you are washing yours and your other nicer roommie’s (who reciprocate the favor). she has never uttered a thank you.
All of this I DON"T MIND AT ALL. What I do mind is this: she never throws out her old rotting food that is in the fridge. SHe has milk in there that expired Nov 13. Yet she doesn’t throw it out. SHe has some chicken which she made before winter break, that is rotting the fridge. In the past, i (or my other roommates) have thrown it out for her. But now I( and I guess my other roommates) just don’t want to (because I personally am sick of being her personal maid), and so its sitting there.
I am waiting for my other roommates to crack and say something, because I don’t want to be the one says anything.
:) just put a sign up on the fridge to say that everyone is responsible for their stuff and that if its stinking, then to throw it out... or maybe have a cleaning roster? you can have a roster for the dishes and cleaning out the fridge
is this the only reason u hate her? Hate is such a strong word...
want to put ur gun on others shoulder and do the hunt...how convenient.....
why can't you have the guts to talk to this hated roommate of yours...you sure have enough nerves to post it here...why not notch it up a bit and confront her as well. its not just your roommates problem alone. its yours as well. if you want her to be the bait then you are doing exactl what your hated roommate is doing, not pulling her own weight.
want to put ur gun on others shoulder and do the hunt...how convenient.....
why can't you have the guts to talk to this hated roommate of yours...you sure have enough nerves to post it here...why not notch it up a bit and confront her as well. its not just your roommates problem alone. its yours as well. if you want her to be the bait then you are doing exactl what your hated roommate is doing, not pulling her own weight.
That's the sad thing about me. I can yell and scream virtually, and i can even scream at my brothers and order them to do stuff for me (and there such angels, they always do it!), but when it comes to my FAT, BIG MOUTH ROOMMATE, i'm like a scared billie.
She's makes me so mad!!!! Actually she's really scary. She's always in her room screaming on phone. She screams at her hubby on the phone, and basically everyone- I just don't want her to scream at me- and make a big scene.
Eventually I know that I'm just going to clean out the fridge myself, so whatever.
She's been living with me for a year. The sad thing I invited her to live with me because I thoght she was a nice person.
the other reason I don't say anything is is because I'm hardly at home. I'm always in the library and I don't really use the kitchem cuz i'm not much of an eater, and the I come home at night to basically clean and go to sleep. So it doesn't really bother me so much- it only bothers me because I'm a clean freak.
:) just put a sign up on the fridge to say that everyone is responsible for their stuff and that if its stinking, then to throw it out... or maybe have a cleaning roster? you can have a roster for the dishes and cleaning out the fridge
is this the only reason u hate her? Hate is such a strong word...
yeah, it is. I dislike extremely though. She's also really loud an obnoxious. The thing is I don't want to put up a sign- basically because- I'm a little scared. But I am thinking about it.What should I write, that's not hurt ful, but gets the message across?
That's the sad thing about me. I can yell and scream virtually, and i can even scream at my brothers and order them to do stuff for me (and there such angels, they always do it!), but when it comes to my FAT, BIG MOUTH ROOMMATE, i'm like a scared billie.
She's makes me so mad!!!! Actually she's really scary. She's always in her room screaming on phone. She screams at her hubby on the phone, and basically everyone- I just don't want her to scream at me- and make a big scene.
Eventually I know that I'm just going to clean out the fridge myself, so whatever.
so your other roommate should suffer bcos of your own weakness and incompetence...? who knows maybe she is also a darpook like you...then what?
you'll move out?
:) just put a sign up on the fridge to say that everyone is responsible for their stuff and that if its stinking, then to throw it out... or maybe have a cleaning roster? you can have a roster for the dishes and cleaning out the fridge
is this the only reason u hate her? Hate is such a strong word...
Talk to all of your roomates and decide what to say to her and you all tell her.
Don't do her dishes.
That is what I did when I had roomies. Trust me it works and makes everybody's life easy and keeps the peace.
Awww darpok. Achcha hi hai aap ki choti jaan ko agar kuchal dia to aap ka to qeema bun jaay ga.
Better not to talk to her. She must be having hard time.
Why don't you live with your parents? Just curious.
I can't have that much courage to live with some strangers.
Well there are Muslim- there not strangers- I've known the other since we were babies. It's cuz the closest med school is two ours away from my house-> so I don't really have a choice. It's typical though here in the US.
That's the sad thing about me. I can yell and scream virtually, and i can even scream at my brothers and order them to do stuff for me (and there such angels, they always do it!), but when it comes to my FAT, BIG MOUTH ROOMMATE, i'm like a scared billie.
She's makes me so mad!!!! Actually she's really scary. She's always in her room screaming on phone. She screams at her hubby on the phone, and basically everyone- I just don't want her to scream at me- and make a big scene.
Eventually I know that I'm just going to clean out the fridge myself, so whatever.
Why doesnt she live with her husband?
She's been living with me for a year. The sad thing I invited her to live with me because I thoght she was a nice person.
the other reason I don't say anything is is because I'm hardly at home. I'm always in the library and I don't really use the kitchem cuz i'm not much of an eater, and the I come home at night to basically clean and go to sleep. So it doesn't really bother me so much- it only bothers me because I'm a clean freak.
So bsaically you've never spoken to her about her behaviour?
Some people just need a little reminder or prodding. Im sure she has issues with u too.
Just talk to her, if things dont get better you can always call authorities.......
Well there are Muslim- there not strangers- I've known the other since we were babies. It's cuz the closest med school is two ours away from my house-> so I don't really have a choice. It's typical though here in the US.
So bsaically you've never spoken to her about her behaviour?
Some people just need a little reminder or prodding. Im sure she has issues with u too.
Just talk to her, if things dont get better you can always call authorities.......
Sara maar khanay kay baad authorities kia karay gi.